Suncadia Resort has Winterfest every year. Ice skating, breakfast with Santa, crafts, gingerbread house making. Its super organized and worth every penny. No mess at my house is work a lot of $$ in my book.
The view from the lodge. If you have never been there, book your room now! It's fantastic all year round. Go with or without kids. The spa is the best I've ever been. The Swiftwater Winery is amazing. We are black diamond members and get lots of discounts on top of cases of wine. The food is so good and they have live music all the time!